Men use their bar girl to get closer to their wives, while in return, the wife use their bar girl to get closer to their husband. This way, this chain of affairs keeps going and going, and it is more harmful to all involved.
In cities, the bar girls prefer to sleep with men, instead of their families. Hence, the families are forced to take a break from supporting the women. The women’s families are hurt by their actions, especially when the men are still asking them to persuade them not to leave their wives and take up with the bar girls.
Thus, there is a great need for men to watch out for these city women and their affairs. It is advisable for men to make sure they are with a beautiful girl and avoid women who are ugly, poor, and dirty. Always avoid city women who are married, and prefer to sleep with men, and only ask them to choose from a few women whose morals are good. Make sure that the women you are having an affair with are good. This way, the chain of affairs will be broken.
There are places where bar girls have affairs with men. These places are very common, especially in the provinces of the country. These provinces are plagued by the plague of affairs, especially the provinces of Cebu, Laguna, and Basilan.
In the provinces of Cebu and Basilan, this kind of extramarital relationship is rampant. These provinces have many poor women, and their families have less income and less opportunities to spend on traveling, buying souvenirs, and other things. So, the families have less income to try to keep the women happy. Some women in these provinces get involved in dating with older men. Many of them are so scared of getting caught, and so desperate to continue to have men, that they turn to a bar girl. I mean, why not? The pay is decent, and the men are always willing to help with local needs.
There are also places where bar girls are unfaithful in support of some desperate man. There are some places in Basilan, Cebu, and Laguna where adultery is tolerated. The reasons why these places have so many bar girls are because these are the places where they are more available. These provinces are very poor, and people have to travel further to try to find work and to try to find female companionship. So these places are where many desperate men are willing to sleep with women and not get caught.
Many of the famous Basilan bar girls are the daughter of bar girls from other provinces in the country. Many of them come from the provinces, and move to Basilan, and spend the rest of their lives regretting that they did not come from these provinces in the country. They do not understand why they did not come from these provinces in the country. Because they know Basilan is a more upscale place and there are more rich families in Basilan. So these women, do not understand how they could spend time with men who are less wealthy than them. They never receive any advice from their family, about how to avoid these types of encounters. Many of the young women in Basilan never seek for help from their family. They are more like victims, that are being played upon.
Many of the women in Basilan in Basilan are not from Basilan. Most of these women are from Mindanao and the Visayas. Because, there is more poverty in the Visayas and Mindanao, the Visayas are more poverty stricken.
Many of the women in Basilan that are married in Basilan are also from Basilan. And are from areas that have fewer prospects. They come from areas where the potentiality of being a dancer is not that great. Some of them are from areas where they are not getting picked up by anyone, so they are staying in bars with their men. The men in the bar do not offer them more than basic service. They do not get any tips. So when they spend time with their partner, they realize that their partner is not that great in bed. So these women are now seeking out better service. They get a little more service from their men. Their men are able to give them more attention, because the women in Basilan have more competition. They have a man that is married in Basilan. So they start flirting with their man and notice that they are able to get more service and sex. These women have a tough time dating and are going to other places to find someone better. They now have competition. The women here now say, “Wow! There is someone that is willing to go out of his way to give me this extra attention and sex. This is better than the bar.”
So these women come here and now look for a marriage partner to serve. So as the marriage grows, so do these women’s expectations.
You can go back to the bar and find someone that has something better to offer than your partner. And you have the option of not talking to this person. You can date someone else who has something better to offer and will give you the same kind of attention. And you can take the time to find someone else to serve.
If you go to another bar and find someone else to serve, you have to understand that you will be serving at someone else’s whim. You will only be serving at someone else’s desires. You will be serving someone else’s needs. And you have to realize that someone else’s needs are not worth serving. It’s not worth compromising your integrity and serving someone else’s beliefs.
You may get extra service in the bar and it may be that this person will be your spouse. So it’s a good idea to take this person aside and ask, “Do you think it’s OK to stop by my house at night and serve people?” And if they are truly committed to your partner, they will tell you the truth, even if it hurts. And they will give you the chance to go to their house and serve everyone.
If you have any interest at all in working things out, this is advice is not intended to hurt you. It’s intended to get things back on track. If you have any interest at all in your marriage and in your spouse, then you need to find out if they want to stay with you and with you service them. Because if you serve them, then you are serving someone else’s needs. If you are serving someone else’s needs, then you are serving someone else’s needs. And this person has to have their own needs. And they are the ones who have to make their own decisions.